sexy...

  this will be my first attempt at discussing sex in honest and open terms. if you feel such conversations are inappropriate for you, please do not complain to me; you have been given ample warnings to divert your eyes to subject matter more approrpriate to your tastes.

that being said...

  SEX! yes, friends, it is literally on EVERYONE'S mind. the debate about who thinks about it more (men v women) is moot because i believe everyone thinks about it equally. let's just think about it. what is the one thing everyone universally complains about as being the utmost pest in their life? answer: stress. when is the time we feel our most absolute bliss? answer: sex.

  putting these two points together has been made difficult throughout history because upper class members of society believed sex was something that should be done for procreation while lower class members believed sex was necessary for survival. what happened when opposite members met in the middle (pun intended) was that one member discovered what all the fuss was about.

  side-step: throughout history women have been told that if they behaved in sexually promiscuous ways they would be banished from upper levels of society because such behavior was deemed unladylike. in todays society we have women who continue to believe that the shackles placed on their sexuality is for their own good. in both examples, the men of the mentioned periods generally have no qualms with fucking everything in sight. ask yourself why?

  if you ask me, i firmly believe everyone should have someone with whom to have sex. this is not the same as saying that i want to have sex with every woman i see or meet. granted, while sexual attraction is probably the strongest of all types of attraction, it isnt the easiest thing to untangle once the ball has begun to roll. for starters, i believe that most women i meet have different intentions with their sexual desires, but i am constantly impressed with the ever-developing sexual maturity of younger generations of women. i am told by those involved that a lot of younger women are growing up with a better understanding of what it means to be a sexually liberated woman.

  my complaint for too long has been that while the message had been spread that women should be allowed to be sexually free, whenever i encountered women of my generation or older, i was always met with reservation concerning entry into their most sacred temple. in essence, the theory had been spread but few had ever discussed its practice. (humorous fact: my favorite nickname for sex is practice). some of this also has to do with cultural differences, especially with regards to those that continue to push for their women to remain under male dominance.

  Latino culture, under which i was raised, is one example of a culture that is slowly beginning to accept sexually liberated women. unfortunately, this progress isnt happening fast enough for my tastes. my mother always pesters me about when i'm going to bring home a nice Latina, and i always retort that it will happen when i finally find a Latina woman who agrees with my theories in the social circles through which i habitually venture. besides, White people continue to be the majority in our beloved country, so it is more likely that an eccentric, such as myself, will find more of said women in said circles, and i would enjoy spending more of my private time with them.

  then again, i have always fancied myself a connoisseur of sex. i am willing to try anything with anyone at anytime, supposing of course that said action was to occur in a setting where my privacy would be respected, or unless all parties involved were in agreement with regards to sharing themselves in public. at the end of the day, i'm an unapolagetic exhibitionist, nudist, and sexual liberator (or i aspire to be the latter). since i have managed to get myself into better shape i have taken notice of how women have begun to look at me differently. this, coupled with some basic changes in my presentation when i am communicating with women has helped to transform my confidence with them. now i feel as if i not only make better sense of women but i feel like i have tapped into a better system in order to better understand how to provide for their sexual appetites.

  in my opinion, women have been told for too long that being sexually liberated was a bad thing, but i am slowly beginning to realize that more and more women are tapping into this part of themselves, which in turn is helping to realize one of my greatest dreams. as i said in the beginning, i believe we should all be able to enjoy our sexual freedoms free from persecution, and i'm glad that more women are beginning to explore this side of themselves on a daily basis. depending on whom you ask, you are either late to the party, on time, or have been there for a while when it comes to being open about your sexual liberties. in truth, i believe the society in the Bay Area is returning to ancient times when it was socially acceptable for everyone to have a good time sexually.

  i am looking forward to discovering my own sexual voice in hopes of making it a part of a greater and more ambitious project. we'll pick this up again later (pun intended)...